Your journey into self
awareness is going to take you outside of yourself and onto paths that you may
not realize are relevant in the beginning.
Some people have more to learn in this life than others and if you are
one of those who will become a counselor or a world changer you will have more
side trips than most.
Some of you will be met with
an issue that probably will go against everything that you were taught as a
child regarding nutrition and health and that is the issue of eating meat. Is it right or is it wrong to kill a living
thing and consume it? Who has more
rights on this planet, you or the multitude of other creatures who inhabit it? All things have life. There are some people
who believe that you must mentally warn a vegetable that you are going to
consume it before you cut and prepare it so that it can acknowledge this and “faint” beforehand. Nature and evolution contain all of the
answers that are necessary and appropriate to sustain life, but you must make
sense of them and balance them with what is truly correct for you.
If it is in you to pursue a life without
eating meat it can become a conviction that you will be tempted to impose upon
others. I would not recommend that. Start with yourself and try to follow in the
footsteps of Gandhi whenever you feel the urge to preach to the unconverted; be the
change that you would like to see in the world. Those who convert to vegetarianism many times
become too over-zealous in their desire to promote a good thing to others. These types tend to give a bad impression of
vegetarians and vegans to everyone who has not learned the benefits of such a
lifestyle yet. Truly, some people will
never learn it, but that does not mean that you have to shun and shame them for
not being at your level. To do so is
bullying, pure and simple. It is good to
understand that all living creatures have a right to live their lives and not
be interfered with just because humans are hungry, but you will not make your
case well by mocking and insulting those who have not reached your level of
understanding yet. Bear in mind that you were once where they are and the
snooty vegetarians who act superior are no better than the jack-asses who
insult them for appearing self-righteous.
A mentor of mine once told me that you cannot change everyone and make
them like you for what you are doing.
The best that you can do is bless them and go on. Let it go, and keep with what you are. You will still be able to look at yourself in
the mirror and be comfortable with you.
Self acceptance is at the heart of peace. You do not need the approval of others to
live the convictions that are important to you.
To expect that approval defeats the purpose of finding your true self.
Approval seekers are not capable of knowing their own individualism. What you
are and what you are meant to be must be shown to the world as the self they
are either going to receive as worthy or not.
You have no control over this and it is futile to try to convince others
of it. Learn to live without this or
know that you will spend your entire life trying to get and maintain constant
approval. It is actually you that you
are trying to convince of your worth, and until you believe in it, you will never get off the treadmill of trying
to feed your hungry soul. Once you have accomplished the approval of yourself, for
yourself, you can mirror this back to others who have the ears to hear and the
eyes to see, and approval, if it comes, will feel deserved.
If you feel that eating meat
may not be the right thing to do but you don’t know where to start to change
your eating habits and can’t even imagine a life without steak, chicken, cheeseburgers,
and turkey at Thanksgiving, a good place to begin to change your feelings might
be to see the film “Temple Grandin”. This movie is not about becoming a
vegetarian. Miss Grandin herself is not
a vegetarian, she is an autistic young woman who becomes interested in cattle
ranching and animal studies. She is in
no way advocating that people stop eating meat.
What she is advocating is that the animals be treated humanely and with
respect for their inborn nature. I won’t
go in to her struggles in doing this. I
will save that for when you watch the film.
My reason for recommending it is because it is a good place to begin to
have compassion for the animals that are sacrificed so that you may have meat
on the table. It may only serve to show
you some compassion for the woman, Temple Grandin, because she has to struggle
hard to overcome the many obstacles that life laid before her. But even if you only take away some empathy
for her, you will still have taken away
something of value.
If you are already fairly
certain that you would like to stop eating meat, another film that I would
recommend to you that may actually inspire you to accomplish it is the
documentary, “Food, Inc.” Learning more about the process of food coming
from the farm and the factory to your table is profoundly humbling. Most people never give a second thought to
how a cow or a pig or a chicken go from a living thing to packaged, processed
parts in the grocery store. The film is
quite an eye opener and some of it is downright harrowing to watch, but if you are going to put something in your
mouth and let it run through your digestive system you really need to be
informed of what is in it and where it came from. Watching this documentary
alone gave me the incentive to give up meat there and then. I had tried to go vegetarian before and did
not stay with it, but after watching, I was able to stop again and I have
maintained that conviction. Be prepared for some very disturbing images. Also be prepared to learn that there are
people in this world who do not give one big damn about anything but making
money at the expense of anyone and anything that must be sacrificed to get
it. It is very sad to find that this kind
of “I don’t give a shit about anybody
but me” attitude exists but it truly does.
If this film does motivate you to stop eating meat for whatever
conviction it may move you to manifest, know that you are making a significant
contribution to your own health and well being by what you are doing. Nearly every major illness such as heart
disease, cancer, and diabetes (if you survive them) will require you to either
cut back on your consumption of meat or give it up entirely in order to return
to wellness. It is too bad that the
medical establishment does not endorse being vegetarian from the moment of
birth.
I don’t expect that everyone
who watches either of these films will be as motivated as I was. Many of my
friends saw “Food, Inc” and felt it
was disturbing and thought provoking, but ultimately they did not change anything
in their eating habits. Still, I believe
in planting seeds and hoping that somewhere down the road the messages in these
two films will spark the necessary inspiration to rethink what they saw at a
later date when its message may be more relevant to their stage in life. It
can only benefit this world and everyone in it to respect and care for all who
are on planet earth, be it animal, vegetable, mineral or human. All who are here deserve to live life to the
fullest and have the opportunity to live it well.
Many times
you have to go backwards to move forward.
This may seem like a waste of time and effort to backtrack so much when
you want to move ahead, but to find yourself at the point where you even
realize a change should be made in your life is the universe urging you to
evolve. Most of the time, our evolution
requires us to go back and remember how we got to this point in the first
place. There is a higher knowledge at
work, and that you see it at all is a sign that there is so much more potential
in you than you might imagine, but some deprogramming of yourself is always
going to be necessary because to one extent or another, you have acquired a lot
of “other people’s” baggage over time. It
is up to you to determine how much of your reality is truly you. It is a mixture of your original self and the
evolution of your soul. Original self
can be found in the past, and knowing where you have been will help you discard
all of the unnecessary debris that others have imposed upon you. Remember the past, live in the present, and
think in the future. A whole life
emerges from this. And your life is only
one in all the universe, but it is one that has great worth and great
potential. Just be mindful that other
life forms have their place in the cosmic scheme of things as well. And many of them depend upon you for their
very lives.
Wow! Thank you for writing this! As a Vegetarian for four years now (yay!) I can't say it was an easy process. Very rewarding yes, but still difficult to start and sometimes even maintain in a fast food world. Especially when everyone around you eats meat. I particularly would have loved to have found an article/post like this in the beginning of my omnivore to herbivore transition. I think a lot of people should read this as your words are very encouraging. Thanks again! :-)
ReplyDeleteThis really hit home for me. Nice to know I'm not the only one who is struggling with this.
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